On Top of the World

November 22, 2008 at 10:35 pm | In Culture, Cute Guys, Gay, Politics | 7 Comments
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I thought about this today. The earth is a sphere, right? (Actually it’s a close to an oblate spheroid, it bulges at the equator as we all do to an extent. Possibly more after this Thursday.) Now in space, where earth is, there is no ‘up’ or ‘down.’ Or rather, every direction is ‘up’ and ‘down.’

This means that unless you’re standing in a building, you’re on top of the world. What about mountains or valleys? Who cares; the earth is remarkably smooth – smother than a billiard ball, even with Mount Everest. The neat thing is that everyone can be, in fact, everyone is, on top of the world.

Keith Olberman on Prop 8

Worth watching no matter what your views are:

Of Late

Did you see the Republicans’ Boob Bait for the Bubba Bunch, Sarah Palin, chortling and enjoying a frolicsome time in front of turkeys being slaughtered? I don’t want this to be all YouTube-y but if you’re feeling a lack of horror in your life, look at this vision of the person lots and lots of Republicans wanted to be one ageing doddering heartbeat away from the Presidency. If this was their idea of a good idea, why would we trust them to run a village, let alone a country?

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She’s such a moron. But her husband’s cute. <blush> Oh, and note to Brits; do you see the chav-tastic Burberry check scarf on her? Or how even when she’s not campaigning she continuously repeats vapid slogans and stupidity.

Yes, That’s a New Pair of Eyes Up There

And we must say two goodbyes, the first to our big ole hunk, Adam Baldwin. He seems to be quite upset about it, but all good things must come to an end. I’ll always have a soft spot for him but I can get a fix once a week with Chuck so it’s all good.

Can you guess who the new gent is? Answers should be sent to me, written on a post card attached to a 2008 Rolls Royce Phantom Drophead Coupé with the teak tonneau cover, in black over tan leather interior. The winning entrant will get a quick ride in my new car.

Uma Outra Renovação – Another Renovation

Our second good-bye is to boyishly handsome Thiago Serpa, but man-watchers need never despair; our mini-obsession continues, and continues with Brazilians. This time it’s actor and model Rafael Calomeni. Enjoy.

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(Can’t wait to see where this will end, can you?)

Sure Happy It’s Thursday

November 20, 2008 at 11:29 pm | In Culture, Cute Guys, Politics, South Africa | Leave a Comment
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Well, not quite as good as TGIF, is it…

There’s been a lot of news about a bail out for GM and the other ‘big’ three automakers. In the middle of it was a good piece on NPR about the Tesla electric sports car. (Looks fun to drive, doesn’t it?) Apparently everyone knew two things about electric cars before the Tesla – they sucked, and they were dead. The story went on to say

“They were dead because California, under pressure from Detroit, had dropped the electric car from its zero-emissions mandate, and the Big Three manufacturers — Ford, Chrysler and General Motors — immediately shut down their electric-vehicle operations. GM recalled and crushed all of the cars it had dubbed the Ev1.

Spot the irony? It’d be different if, while asking for our money, the executives pledged not to penalize the workers for their own short-sightedness, to stop going after short term gain and not long term vision, and to maybe stop jacking the average consumer around. After all we are all in this together, aren’t we?

Another irony–it would appear that the GOP, often accused of favouring big corporations, are against this bail out, at least in the form the car companies would like it, and the Democrats are for it. However, I wouldn’t put it past our free-market friends to have some angle on all this–I’d put money on the compromise being better than the original deal.

Soon, Bush will be gone. Just keep repeating that to yourself; it’s better than Prozac.

In Other News

Not a lot really. Apparently I’m too foul-mouthed for the moderator on my South African forum, so that’s that. I’ve been suspended, but really, I think I’ll give them a bit of a wide berth for a while. All I said was that I had no sympathy for any church or group feeling consequences of the backlash swirling around Prop 8’s passage and that if you piss on me better get yourself a towel. I even spelled it p*ss. Oh, well. I seem to be p*ssing people off a lot lately.

Honestly, I don’t think this law suit will work, and I feel very sad about that, but I do think that my marriage won’t be quashed. At least I hope not. However, we can always go to Connecticut or Massachusetts.

Gorgeous Gavin Newsom was on Attractive Anderson Cooper last night, expressing more hope than certainty that right will be done. I always find it inspiring when a straight man, trained possibly to revile us gay ones, can be so supportive. Anderson has been supportive in the past too.

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I Have No Witty Segue

But here’s a couple of behind-the-scenes shots of our strapping sailor, Adam Baldwin, filming the Poseidon Adventure. Must just go and make sure I’ve got it on my Netflix queue…pa3pa4maybe going down with the ship might not be such a bad thing.

Now, I May Have a Few Fans

Who were concerned about seeing so much of Thiago Serpa, recently, in his underware. While that’s not an unalloyed shame (and he certainly has nothing to be ashamed of!), I do take possible comments like this to heart and so, if you were indeed distressed by the expanses of tighty-whities, here are some views of him you might find less upsetting.

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(How could you not be pleased with that?)


The Gulf

November 13, 2008 at 11:27 pm | In Cute Guys, Exercise, Friends, Fun and Relaxation | 1 Comment
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The gulf between what I should do and what I actually do continues to yawn. I didn’t go to the gym this afternoon, or yesterday. :( Your gentle comments of disapproval would actually be welcomed.

Especially since C and I are going away for the weekend – to celebrate that I’ve not turned my toes up for another year. Not sure if I’ll get a chance to at least do cardio.

We’re going to the New Jersey shore (Somers Point) via the Cape May-Lewes Ferry, thence to Lambertville, NJ, and also to see New Hope, PA, and thence home on Sunday. (I take my breath away with multiple thences.) I hope the weather is not too horrible. We may ‘pop’ into Philly to take another stab at either Geno’s or Pat’s to get a cheese steak. Wish us luck!!!

Do You Believe in Tragic?

Well, that may be an exaggeration but I have been feeling very badly for some good friends of mine, K and D and my godson J. It seems like no matter what, life always deals them some blow that would crush me, but somehow, and I wish I knew how, just so I could bottle it, they manage to be optimistic, to carry on, and to be the locus of kindness in our little circle of friends. Lately they’ve had to contend with a botched window replacement on their house, their pool being colonized by horrible indestructable algae rendering it useless for most of summer, and now their car may have been totalled. I wish I could help them, and I wish that I could be as forward-looking as them. I don’t know about wanting to be as kind as they are – that’d be a real change in my personality. I might not know myself. But then, all my friends are good people. I’m utterly blessed and lucky and grateful that I have them. I often wonder whether, say I’d moved to Atlanta or Boston, as seemed a possibility, I’d find good friends there, and I doubt it.

This is how good they are. Years ago, when I was still a young management analyst intern, I was away from home and all alone in Atlanta on a training course on my birthday. My friends flew down from Maryland to see me. So I pick them up at the airport and take them to my hotel and they come up to the room I’m in. D (the gentleman) announces he’s not feeling well and needs to go down to the gift shop in the lobby to see if they have any medicine that might help. He’s gone ages, and I am getting worried, but K insists that he’s just found somebody to talk to or something and I shouldn’t go off looking for him. Then, in walks D with a big birthday cake, candles, and chilled champagne for me; they’d arranged it with the hotel before setting out. I still remember the way I felt – so grateful and warmed. I feel sorry for everyone who doesn’t have K and D and J and KW and CK as friends. They’re missing out.

Somebody Who Does Get His Exercise

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Is Adam Baldwin. Here he is proving it, and looking as happy to do it as I am to see it! And because hirstute or glabrous, I find his chest fabulous, here’s a mash-up of his pecs. God, I even write gay, don’t I? He does hang rather well, as I see it…

Speaking of Having Less and Less On

Here’s our Brazilian Boy, Thiago Serpa, showing us that not only a shirt isn’t really necessary when you’ve the looks to carry it off.

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(I so can’t believe I’m noting this but he looks a little cocky in the last one, doesn’t he?)

Dedication

November 11, 2008 at 11:38 pm | In Culture, Cute Guys, Exercise, Resolutions, Work | Leave a Comment
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Yes, I have to dedicate myself to this and henceforth I will try to blog at least every day, even if it’s only a short phrase or two, a pithy or otherwise observation to show that I care about my readers (which I do of course!).

So let’s see, since my last update

nnp14freedomtrainerSunday was a lazy day around the homestead. Monday I went to work but as it was a “DONSA” (day of no scheduled activity) none of the military and only a few civilians were in. My next-door-cubicle friend GG even wore jeans. He looks better in jeans, sort of boyish, even though he’s four years older than me. Because we were let out 59 minutes early (supervisors can dismiss employees up to but not including one hour early) I went over to the gym (very little EC) and did sixty minutes.

Today I went to the gym really early and did quite a bit, upper body (less shoulders and much chest) and lower body (less hip abductors and adductors). Tomorrow it’ll be just cardio on the treadmill.

I need to try out shrugs, rotator cuffs and prone flyes at home (in the privacy thereof) AND to figure out how to use the ‘freedom trainer‘ at the gym. I did find this one exercise that looks pretty useful, but since the darn thing’s right in front of everyone, I have to be ready to swing the arms just perfect pretty much instantly or look a right pillock. Does anyone have any advice?

Here’s the exercise I found. Whaddaya think?

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Movies You Should Watchstrange-fruit

One:  Back Soon. It’s really good, and a lovely twist on Ghost and Prelude to a Kiss. You have to overlook some rather badly developed characters and some stilted dialogue, but other than that, the plot is more developed and inventive than a lot of gay-themed indies.

Two:  Strange Fruit: Although you can see the ‘twist’ a mile off, and although I don’t really think southerners are quite as nasty as portrayed, this is a good film with some palpable tension and a handsome lead (Kent Faulcon).

I’ll have a few more recommendations (commandments really!) later.

In Keeping With the Military Theme of the Day

Here are some shots of our hunky Mr. Baldwin, from “Full Metal Jacket” and “Independence Day.” This post is pretty eye candy intensive but after the last few days I think that some of the billions…well…some of my fans might appreciate some relaxing/distracting images of manflesh on the hoof as it were:

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Is it me or does South African singer Bok Van Blerk look a bit like a younger Adam Baldwin?

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Go, go, Thiago!

Here, Thiago Serpa shows us how a baseball cap can set a handsome lad off just right….

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Never Rains But It Pours

November 3, 2008 at 10:48 pm | In Cute Guys, Exercise | Leave a Comment
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Two posts in as many days??

Well, what could be the reason for all this AngloAm-erficness? Just that I wanted to catch you up on a few things….

Thing One

I did gain weight – about three pounds. :( So this week has to be better. Luckily nobody brought in any Halloween candy. And Weight Watchers has a new website geared to my iPhone that will make entering my points values easier on the fly. So that’s good. I did 45 minutes today at the gym, very little eye candy except Happy Dave..and then the guy in the green shirt on the shots below who wasn’t a bit difficult to look at…

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(Click on any to see him get bigger and bigger, the big lug.)

Thing Two

I am sooo bored at work. If I don’t get something meaningful to do soon, I’ll go berserk and run amok. Today I worked, actually worked for about fifteen minutes. The rest of the day, seven hours and forty-five minutes I spent surfing the net. And since it’s at work, I couldn’t even surf porn, for goodness’ sake. I have started applying for other jobs. Thing is, once you get into one of these underutilized ruts, you start to get used to doing nothing so you actually sort of resent work intruding on your plans for wasting time, and your skills and familiarity and self-confidence go down the tubes. What do you think – should I tell my boss?

Thing Three

Adam Baldwin – yes, it’s time for a delightful dose of his deliciousness. Here is one of him looking elegant in evening wear, and two of him in rather less, all screen caps from Chuck. How would you want your Adam Baldwin, unwrappable or already unwrapped. Surely the first and you could do it at your leisure – it’d be too nice a job to rush.

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The last two were from “Chuck vs. The Undercover Lover.” And I know some of you would take him any way you could get him.

And just to bring more multimedia into your life, here is a little video of a seriously beefy Adam with great arms playing around with a can of soda.

Don’t stop! Don’t stop! Make it pop!

Thing Four

Yet more eye candy, this time our mini Brazilian boy Thiago Serpa. Here the aspiring young model dons his track suit pants and plays around with his seat…click on the smaller ones to make Thiago grow.

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(Where would you like him to put it?)

How’s It Going, AngloAm?

October 20, 2008 at 10:11 pm | In Cute Guys, Family, Politics | 3 Comments
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Going well, thanks for asking!

Friday my marvellous friends and we went to a Mongolian BBQ – yummy. I’m basically over inviting CH from work. He likes to be invited, I think, so he can feel important. Of course, it’s way more rewarding from him if I, puppy-dog like, keep asking him to come out with us. I think I’ll give it a rest. He’s not that good looking, and he’s definitely not that interesting.

Saturday my husband and I (I sound like Queen Elizabeth at Christmas, don’t I?) were supposed to work out/cut the grass/be productive. Beep! Nope. We lazed about. Sunday we lazed about until it was time to go visit my parents.

Work today wasn’t bad, honestly. Our financial adviser came by tonight to deliver the news that we’re doing quite well, actually, our debt isn’t high at all, our net worth has increased, and our plans are proceeding apace. He would like us to set aside more money for our retirement which I think we can do…stopping Neal will make it easier. He’d also like us to buy more shares as they’re on sale right now. We had a big salad for dinner and a lovely dessert C made with strawberries, Splenda, Sauternes, and sweetened fage (Greek yogurt very thick and mild and yummy and fat free). Mmmmmm. Mind you, because of buying hotdogs at work I’m way over my points for today. :(

I know, I know, we still haven’t painted the door. I never worked out. (I still somehow managed to lose two pounds.)

A Thought You Should Ponder

I keep wondering (sorry, wonderin’) if we’re going to wake up in November to the reality of a sick old man being between us and a Palin Presidency (you betcha!). What are your thoughts? At least she’ll be certifiably free of the menace of witchcraft. I’m one of the four or five people who didn’t see the Saturday Night Live episode with La Palin on, but I doubt I missed much. Seriously – this woman will negotiate with foreign leaders, not just Putin when he ‘rears his head,’ on our behalf. Will direct the machinery of the federal government. Will represent the Presidency in dealings with congressmen who had their first bribes before she even graduated high school. (She did graduate high school, right?) And she’s a small-town mayor and two-year governor of Alaska. How hard can it be to be the governor of Alaska? The state’s awash in oil money and everyone votes Repug anyway.

Some Adamy Goodness

Chuck was on tonight – it was fantastic. In honor thereof, here is some Adam Baldwin goodness; some black and white goodness and some goodness from last week’s episode.

And Some Brazilian Goodness

Our newest mini-obsession is Brazilian model Thiago Serpa. I was noodling around and got stopped in my tracks by this 20 year old from Niteroi near Rio de Janeiro. I think it was his little sly smile that did it for me. Here’s the first installment – I hope you like him as we may be seeing quite a bit of him over the next few weeks. Try to wipe the drool off your monitor.


(Que Bom Gato!)

Another Less Than 24 Hours

October 7, 2008 at 12:31 pm | In Cute Guys, Family | 2 Comments
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Less than 24 hours until C and I wing our way to California to get married!!!!

We’re leaving tomorrow morning bright and early, flying from BWI to Atlanta, then Atlanta to San José. There, we’ll rent a car, drive through San Francisco, over the Golden Gate, and to Sacramento (I know, it’s a round about way). We’ll tie our knot in Sacramento and then on to Sonoma County for a few days’ relaxation, wine and olive oil tasting, to dip my feet into the Pacific Ocean, see a Russian colonial fort, possibly a periodic geyser, and generally feel marvellous. (Or crowded, October is high season in the wine country.)

Monday we will “do” San Francisco properly and Tuesday morning we wing and jet our way back the way we came.

I have to admit to being a bit concerned about two things…

AngloAm’s Concerns

Concern 1:  The flight. Intellectually, I know that flying is very very safe indeed. You are sixty-five times more likely to be killed driving on rural Interstate highways (the safest kinds of roads in the country) than flying the same distance. There are so few airplane accidents that the NTSB no longer studies domestic mishaps only, but has to also study successful flights to fine tune them. Pilots have families too and would never do the job if it were really terribly dangerous. Yesterday there were just under 30,000 flights in the US and all landed successfully.

But. I still imagine how it would be to know that you were plummetting to your death. That one, two, four, ten minutes knowing that you and all your flightmates will be crashing, and being utterly unable to do anything about it. What would that be like? I close my eyes and sort of approach imagining it but I can’t – my mind recoils in horror and fear.

That’s the lottery nobody wants to win, and that’s what I’m most terrified as in gut-wrenching, butterflies-in-the-tummy scared. I feel this overwhelming desire to flee. Yet I know I won’t. I can recognize this anticipatory anxiety for what it is, yet I still feel it. And once again, I’m relying on C for strength. Sometimes I feel such a burden.

Concern 2:  Being too fat to get down the aisle boarding. Being too fat to fit in the seat (at least I have that in common with nearly everyone since seat widths haven’t kept pace with people’s posteriors’ widths!). Being too fat to fit in the bathroom (a big concern when we fly to Australia – I can ‘keep it in’ for five hours, but not for fourteen!). The plane tilting to one side because of my weight (stupid; all the passengers, their luggage, and cargo only accounts for 20% of a plane’s weight). We’ve bought three tickets (one for me, one for my fat ass, and one for C) but I don’t know if we can afford that for Aus (or the UK) and I would hate for my blubber to be the reason C can’t go home and see his family.  :(

Good week? Not so much.

I’ve been pretty bad this past week with exercise and eating. Let’s just leave it at that, shall we? Neal the ex-personal trainer man wants me to write him a reference. I will, but I’ve forgotten to/put it off until now. If I have time tonight I will. If not he’ll have to wait until we get back. I’ve just lost my earring with my birth stone on it. :( And, because of another engagement last night, I never got to watch Chuck. I hope our VCR (yes, so retro!) taped it.

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I keep being nervous about the flight. Perhaps looking at Adam Baldwin, here in a promo picture and screen cap (thank you, Adam Baldwin Archives) from the next movie with His Adamness I’ll get from Netflix, DC Cab, will calm me down.

 

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(Did it get you calm too?) 

Less than 24 Hours!!!!

September 28, 2008 at 10:08 pm | In Culture, Cute Guys, Exercise | 6 Comments
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Less than 24 hours until Chuck comes back on!

To Catch Everyone Up

Last week was tiring but good. I guess I’ve conquered the re-fearing the gym because I went every evening except Friday and also on Saturday, and back to the weight room as well. :) I took some pictures, somewhat surreptitiously with my cell phone camera (so sorry for the poor quality) from where I do my treadmill walking (in one of the shots you can see somebody in a black shirt on one of the treadmills I use). The pictures are of “Pointy Hair Guy” whom I’ve mentioned before (tall, lanky, oddly sexy in a “wow what does he look like naked” kind of way) and of “Happy Dave” whom I’ve also mentioned before (very inspiring, loves basketball, always grins and chats with me). I hope you like them.

I’ve made some gains in strength too – but it’s going to be tough having to go up in five pound increments each time. I may (irony of ironies) have to go between Gaffney and McGill fitness centers as McGill has these little extra plates that weigh only 2 1/2 pounds that you can slot on top of the weight stacks. Anyway, we’ll have to see how it all goes.

In Other News

Not much really. First week officially without Neal. That puts $400 into our budget each month. I’ve been internally debating taking some of that and putting it towards a treadmill or home gym for cold winter evenings or whatever, but I’m not sure. What do you think? I worry that (a) I won’t use it and (b) it’ll be too big to sit in the basement where it has to go. Most of this week it was easy to go to the gym – I was motivated. I am leaning away from getting something for the house…but who knows?

C as usual is wonderfully supportive. I find that sometimes I remember the times I’ve snapped at him or been mean/angry/nasty to him and I wish I could take them back. He’s got such a gentle fierce love and a deep-rooted chesed to him. I’ve been trying to remember that he’s everything to me but he’s also just a person, with a person’s ability to take my snapping/meanness/anger/nastiness, not a superhuman’s, and I think I’ve been less prone to becoming snappish/mean/angry/nasty.

Friday we went to Longhorn with our friends except CK who said it was becoming a ‘burden’ to come along. ??? CH did his usual stunt of telling me he would come, or dropping huge hints, and then not. Saturday we didn’t do much, today (Sunday) we had a nice afternoon in Glen Burnie, Maryland, shopping and running errands. I cooked a very acceptable roast leg of lamb, with butternut puree (because I intended to parboil the butternut, and wound up cooking it too long) and peas. I think I may have put on weight this week though; Friday was a hog fest. :( Tonight (overnight) I’m going to try roasting chick peas from the crock pot bloggist’s site. Wish me luck!

A Movie You Should Not Watch

Prince In Hell. Apparently living in Germany in a time of peace and prosperity is so ‘terrible’ and ‘dreary’ that people should eschew washing themselves, engage in raunchy but unerotic sexy, and take lots of heroin. And the rest of us should feel very sorry for them and find their stories, which actually are terrible and dreary, interesting. I didn’t.

A Site You Should Visit

Photoshop Disasters. “It’s funny because it’s true.”

In Eye Candy

Well, in addition to the cuties above (trust me, the photos are terrible looking, PHG and HD aren’t!) (God, I feel such a perve!) (maybe because I am!) here’s two of Adam Baldwin looking big and yummy. Ricardo Baldin’s becoming a bit boring for me, so I’ll probably pick another Brazilian Beauty for our minor obsession.

Of course, I was thinking about Sakis Rouvas the other day. I do miss his smiling willingness to get his kit off or don skin-tight leather jeans…and since it’s my blog I will post a pic to get you thinking about him too!

(Has that got you thinking, hard?)

At the Beach, there is Water

September 21, 2008 at 10:35 pm | In Cute Guys | 3 Comments
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And water renders things wet.

Here are two pictures of our obsessional man, Adam Baldwin. In the first, a screen shot from his time on “The X Files” Mr. B is getting ready to drink some water, while in inspiringly jock-ish clothing.

In the second, a screen shot from ‘Chuck,’ (Episode “Chuck versus the Undercover Lover”) Mr. Baldwin as NSA Agent Casey is resplendent but dripping in his tux, with Zach Levy as Chuck. (They’d just fought off some bad guys while being tied to two-back to back chairs, but the last bad guy shoved them off a 12th storey balcony into the pool from which they are emerging.)

Speaking of which

I’m letting friends and family know now-the premiere of Season Two of Chuck is Monday, 29 September and I will not be taking phone calls or visitors during the show. Only C may interrupt with actual bleeding or emergency. Everyone else, call me after it’s done and I’ve settled down (give me ten minutes or so to recover).

(How would you like to see Adam Baldwin dripping?)

Wish Me Luck

September 11, 2008 at 3:43 pm | In Cute Guys, Exercise | 2 Comments
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Please wish me luck.

Dammit I am going to the gym tonight.

And dammit I am going to do 20 minutes cardio and then a whole-body lifting. Depending on how much I have left in me afterwards I’ll do the other 40 I ‘owe’ the treadmill.

Dammit.

I am sick sick sick to death of effing around. If I keep this up how will I get to be big and built and intense, like Adam Baldwin, here in a screen cap from the pilot episode of ‘Chuck?’

(Don’t you have to wonder how big he can get?)

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